What do I do for a living? I'm a multi-published author, freelance writer, and radio show host. This allows me to work from home and have a very flexible schedule. I can take days off and travel whenever I'd like.
However, my boss is a real slave driver. Yes, I tend to work too much and need to play a lot more, though I try to strike a good balance with all things - I like being active but also veg, I like outdoors but also museums, I like listening but also talking, I like learning about others and the world around me, but also look inside myself to see what's there and make improvements when/if necessary.
Drama? You won't find it here. So many things in life are really no big deal. Why focus on the negative when there are lots of good things?
Intelligence - I has it.
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Humor? There's nothing sexier than a great sense of humor. Pique my interest by saying something thoughtful and/or making me laugh. You won't easily be forgotten!
Why am I here? That should seem obvious. After all, why are *you* here? But, in case it needs explaining: I'm looking for a stable person who can be a friend, confidant, and lover. Someone with long-term potential. Someone who's compatible with me, but not identical to me. After all, I don't want to be in a relationship with myself! I embrace contrast and find personality quirks endearing.
Now you know a bit about me...tell me about you! I find brains and a sense of humor a real turn on. That's not to say that every conversation needs to make my brain cells explode into a super nova, but good conversation and friendship helps to create a solid foundation on which to build a lasting relationship.