not your typical female
hi, im lena let me start off by saying that i am not your run of the mill female, by this i mean i am not a prissy stuck up fake barbie doll, i am not high maintenance nor am i materialistic. i do not cheat, lie or think i am better then anyone else. im a bit of a tomboy i think it takes me a total of 5 minutes to put on makeup when i do wear it lol i will dress up on a occasion but on any regular day im a jeans and t-shirt kinda girl.
ok enough of that, im a 30 year old woman with her head on straight and who knows what she wants, i have a 3 and a half year old daughter named arianna who is my everything and yes she is way cooler then me lol i work part time for the moment but i can take care of myself and my daughter so i am not looking for a guy to pay my way by no means. i am a very honest and loving person, i would give the shirt off my back to someone in need this is probably why guys walk all over me. i have been i 2 relationships in the past 6 years, i am working on building my self esteem back to where it used to be before i met the last 2 guys. let me just say mental abuse is not cool guys its just as bad as physical abuse but with out the visible scars.
i am looking for a man not a boy, age is nothing but a number if u are mature and can take care of yourself, as i said i am a single mom so if u decide to be with me then i need u to treat my daughter as if she was your own, dont get it twisted im not looking for someone to play daddy because she has a dad i just mean we are a package deal and she deserves to be treated just as well. i NEED a man who is honest, faithful, trustworthy and can be my friend as well as my lover.
i must say a man with a job, great sense of humor, tattoos, piercings, long hair or a musician are a plus i like rock/metal music and horror/comedy movies, i am a poet and i love to write, photography is a passion of mine and i am a great listener.
well if you took the time to read all of this then props to you, we may
Darklotus30, 43
currently offlineGrand Rapids, MI, USA
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not your typical female
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'04"
Weight
260 lbs
Body Type
voluptuous
Movies
comedy, action, horror, sci-fi
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
hazel
Hair Color
auburn
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
single
Have Kids
yes - single parent home
Education Level
high school grad
Profession
Food Service
Income level
Less than $25,000
Do you smoke?
cigarettes
I currently live
with kids
Socially, I am
comic relief, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
not interested in politics
Food Related
Diet Every Now & Then, Italian, Chinese
Personality
playa hater, intellectual, fun loving, lover
Individuality
cougar, ninja, magician, psychic, pirate at heart, goatee, vampire, piercings, tattoos
Religious Views
Wiccan
I'm looking for
mr. right, romance, the yin to my yang, soulmate
My Sign
virgo : aug. 23-sept. 22
Pets
Fish
Gender
Female
Music
Metal, Trance, Techno, Karaoke, Industrial, Heavy Metal, Hardcore, Hard Rock, Alternative Rock
Hair Style
layered
Fitness & Sports
yoga
Health Related
challenging dietary issues
Looking for
Their Body Type
a few extra pounds, supermodel, slim, slender, skinny, thick, pleasantly plump, overweight, large, fit, voluptuous, fat and proud, bodybuilder, average, athletic
Movies
horror, sci-fi, romantic comedy, comedy, action
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
black, blue, brown, glass, gray, green, hazel
Hair Color
depends on the day of the week, auburn, bald, black, blond, red, light brown, dark brown
Their Ethnicity
Inter-racial, Middle Eastern, Mixed Race, Indian, Native American, Other, Pacific Islander, Vulcan, Hispanic / Latino, Caucasian, Asian
Relationship
separated, single, single - never married, widowed
Do they smoke?
daily, socially, for medicinal purposes, clove cigarettes, hookah, cigarettes, only when I drink, ceremonial smoking
Do they drink?
socially, beer
They are looking for
the yin to my yang, soulmate, romance, relationship, penpal, miss right, friends only, dating, conversation
Gender
Male
Music
Karaoke, Alternative Rock, Classical, Death Metal, Hard Rock, Hardcore, Heavy Metal, Industrial, Trance, Metal, Pop, Post Rock, Progressive Rock, Rock, Screamo, Techno
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Backrubs
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4585 membersA group for those couples who love to sit back and have a romantic dinner followed by a movie night.
Kissing
4526 membersA group for couples who love to kiss, both in public and in private.
First Kiss
3986 membersA group for people who remember the special moment of their first kiss, and love to reminisce.
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