Reason, Season of Lifetime People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person..
When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support,
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons,
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson,
love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
I welcome you to become a part of my life,
whether for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
Hc53, 68
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Reason, Season of Lifetime
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Straight
Height
6'03"
Weight
290 lbs
Body Type
a few extra pounds
Movies
sci-fi, drama, action, comedy
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
black
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
divorced
Have Kids
no - maybe with the right person
Education Level
some college
Profession
Artistic / Musical, Other
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
I currently live
alone
Socially, I am
better in small groups, flirt, home body
Political Views
democrat
Food Related
Soul Food
Personality
lover, romantic, flirt, conservative, fun loving
Individuality
goatee
Religious Views
Christian
I'm looking for
something interesting, soulmate, miss right, miss right now, dating, relationship, the yin to my yang, conversation
My Sign
pisces : feb. 19-march 20
Military Service
marines
Gender
Male
Music
Choir, R and B, Motown, Karaoke, Jazz, Gospel
Hair Style
shaved head
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