two people meet for coffee. the cafe is bright but quiet. hesitant to speak at first, slowly the conversation warms up. they talk about their lives and hopes. the couple leave with thoughts of life and dreams to come. a second meeting is planned and assured.
retired archivist looking for an ltr. life is good, but life with someone is much better.
into live jazz, brueghel the elder, dogs, islamic design, ethnic eating, the registan, viewing embroidery, exploring the arts and understanding science.
i enjoy watching a movie cuddling at home or making a meal. and you?
Ludsstanigan, 68
currently offline
Chicago, IL, USA
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About Me
Gender
Male, Cisgender Male
Orientation
Straight, Gynephilic, Sapiosexual
Height
5'09"
Weight
210 lbs
Hobbies & Interests
computers, cosplay, fleamarkets, history, internet, movies, music, nature, reading, science, sewing
Body Type
athletic
Movies
black & white films, classics, comedy, drama, horror, mockumentaries, sci-fi
Orientation
Ecosexual, Gynephilic, Sapiosexual, Straight
Eye Color
green
Hair Color
auburn
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
divorced, single
Have Kids
no - do not want kids
Education Level
Master's Degree
Profession
Other
Income level
that's private
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
Do you drink?
no
I currently live
alone
Socially, I am
shy at first, but warm up quickly, the life of the party
Political Views
progressive, socialist
Food Related
Chinese, Indian, Italian, Japanese, Mediterranean, Mexican, Pescetarian, Pumpkin Spice Everything, Soul Food, Thai, Caribbean
Personality
activist, clown, extrovert, intellectual, liberal, lover, thrifty, unconventional
Individuality
beard, rocket scientist
Religious Views
Atheist
Miscellaneous
round-earther
I'm looking for
conversation, dating, fun, miss right, relationship, romance, soulmate, the yin to my yang
Pets
Dog, Guinea Pigs, No pets currently (but like them)
Gender
Cisgender Male, Male
Music
Celtic, Folk, Jazz, Progressive Rock
Hair Style
layered, straight
Fitness & Sports
walking
Health Related
minor health issues, pro-vaccine, western medicine
Languages
French
My Preferred Pronouns
He/Him/His
Social Justice
Nuclear Technology Intolerant, Pro-Choice Advocate, Pro-Life Intolerant, Union Advocate, Vaccination Advocate, All Lives Matter Intolerant, Black Lives Matter Advocate, Climate Change Believer, Death Penalty Intolerant, Feminist Movement Advocate, Immigrant Rights Movement Advocate, LGBTQ Issues Advocate
Love Language
Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Words of Affirmation
High Sensation Seeker
Experience Seeking
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