Mswildflower, 56

Searching for a heart of gold. I'm serious about eventually settling down with the right man. I would really like to get to know someone, become good friends and go from there, there is no rush. I'm not on here for a fling, and I'm not on here to play with someones head and heart. I don't expect perfection, we all have quirks and imperfections, but mutual chemistry is important. I am a soft spoken woman, but yet have a sense of humor and love to laugh and make people laugh. I got "FLUFFY" lol, over the past few years because of health issues that are being resolved. I like the person I am, but I prefer to be smaller. I'm a size 14 almost a size 12, but would like to get down to a size 9. I don't want to be super skinny. I would really like to meet a man that sees beyond body size, and will appreciate a woman with a big heart that has love for her family and friends. I look fairly young for my age, and very young at heart, but I would like to meet a guy a few years younger, or 7 years older. I'm not a cougar that dates very young guys, I want something meaningful and real. No more games, just good times and lots of laughter. I am done with the bar scene, got that out of my system years ago, looking for a man that is done with the bar scene and doesn't drink heavily. I like to have a few drinks every now and then, but there are many things out there to do rather than getting drunk. Just want to live my life fully and passionately with the man of my dreams.