Softandgintle, 77
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Chicago, IL, USA
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I'm ;looking for my soulmate
I'm ;looking for my soulmate I'm a passionate, caring person looking for romance and a meaningful relationship. I love nastalgia, old black and white movies, classical, jazz, old school and gospel music. I am a hopeless romantic lost in a relationship which I want out of but not until the right person comes along. The right person should be non-judgemental, open minded, loving, kind, compassionate, intelligent, and willing, over time to appreciate me for what I am. I will honor you, respect you, and treat you with dignity. All I ask for is complete and total honesty.
About Me
Gender
Male
Orientation
Bisexual
Height
5'05"
Weight
180 lbs
Body Type
a few extra pounds
Movies
comedy, drama
Orientation
bisexual
Eye Color
brown
Hair Color
a little gray
Ethnicity
African American
Relationship
married
Have Kids
yes - grown and out of the house
Education Level
college grad
Profession
Other, Sales / Marketing, Entertainment / Media, Education / Academic Research, Artistic / Musical
Income level
$25,000-$50,000
Do you smoke?
no - will not date a smoker
I currently live
with an insignificant other
Socially, I am
loner, anti-social, a couch potato, better in small groups, flirt, home body, shy at first, but warm up quickly
Political Views
democrat
Food Related
BRAINS!!!, Carnivore, Soul Food, Fast Food, Chinese, Lactose Intolerant (am I sharing too much?)
Personality
romantic, flirt, playa, loner, lover, conservative, introvert, intellectual
Individuality
stache, goatee
Religious Views
Christian
Miscellaneous
hard of hearing
I'm looking for
dating, relationship, fun, conversation, something interesting, romance, soulmate
My Sign
i was born in july, cancer : june 21-july 22
Military Service
veteran, army
Gender
Male
Music
R and B, Motown, Jazz, Gospel, Dance, Classical, Choir, Chamber
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
television, sports, music, movies
Movies
comedy, romance, romantic comedy
Orientation
transgender-mtf, bisexual
Eye Color
black, brown, gray, green, hazel, blue
Hair Color
black, dark brown, white / gray, light brown, blond, bald, auburn, a little gray
Their Ethnicity
African American, Asian, Inter-racial, Mixed Race, Native American, Other
Have Kids
no - do not want kids
Income level
$25,000-$50,000, $100,000+, $50,000-$100,000
Do they smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do they drink?
socially
They currently live
with an insignificant other, alone
Food Related
Soul Food, Japanese, BRAINS!!!, Carnivore, Chinese, Fast Food, Fine Dining, French, Indian, Italian, Vegetarian, Vegan
Personality
flirt, fun loving, conservative, intellectual, introvert, liberal, loner, lover, preppy, professional, romantic
They are looking for
dating, mr. right, mr. right now, relationship, romance, something REALLY hot, soulmate, the yin to my yang
Gender
Transgender
Music
Pop, R and B, Motown, Jazz-Fusion, Jazz, Gospel, Classical, Choir, Chamber
Hair Style
comb over, ponytail, crew cut, curly, dreadlocks, flattop, french braid, french twist, layered, afro, bun, long hair, pageboy, perm, short hair, shag, shaved head, straightened, straight
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