Sweetnuthings, 45

To be loved I want a man who (in no particular order) …

… is a good person. There isn't one word I can use to qualify this but he should be the type of person who is polite and respectful to everyone because he doesn't think of anybody as beneath him. The kind of person who does good things not because of what he will gain but because it is the right thing to do. The kind of guy who says please and thank you, who would do anything for the people he cares about, who people call when they feel they have no one else to call. I need him to be the kind of person that cares about injustices and events even though they don't affect his life
… I'm very attracted to
… is ambitious. I don't care what he does, just that he wants to be the best he can possibly be at it. I want somebody for whom mediocrity isn't an option
… smiles, often and easily
… sees the best in every situation and in every person …
... likes to be active and likes the outdoors. For whom summer means walking in parks and hiking and exploring the city
… loves to travel
… will try most things once, if it doesn't go against his principles
… has principles and morals and who will stand up for them to anyone, including me
… recognises my strengths and believes in me more than I believe in myself
… tells the truth even when it is the most difficult thing to do
… is witty, sarcastic and has a great sense of humour
… gets along with my brother
… my family and friends not just approve of but like too
… is very intelligent
… believes me when I say that it is over if he ever cheats on me, and has no intention of testing the theory
… is thoughtful. He doesn't have to be a full blown romantic - I can live without flowers on valentines day but little, well thought out gestures go a long way
... is generous in every way. Not just with material things but with his time and affection
... who genuinely respects me, values my opinions and feelings
... is clean and tidy
... is secure