bella looking for edward i believe in love and romance even though i've had my heart smashed a few times...
i like lots of things. i am pretty much an "all of the above" kind of geek (and proud of it!)... i like wars and trek, anime, manga, rpgs (table top and larp), vampires, harry potter, movies, books, music (oingo boingo!!!), lotr, some comics, video games (ps2 and wii), disneyland/ disney, and on...and a goth (on the perky side... emo makes me nauseous). i'm a big of a big kid at heart but i can be very serious too. i love games that involve dice, character sheets, tokens, controllers, and so on... but not the kind that involve hearts! i love film and was on my way to getting my certificate for becoming an editor in film before i took the mommy track (it was a choice and nothing i was forced into).
i work with kids with special needs (mainly autism) and have a lot of patience but need a guy who isn't going to constantly rely on it.
i need some stability but enjoy some spontaneity. i don't mind paying when i can, but can't afford to have a guy that can't do the same. monogamy is a must! i am not looking for a casual friendship or open relationship.
no drugs. no drama. smoking is ok if you'll do it away from the kids. drinking is fine as long as you're not getting drunk in front of the kids...
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Bella looking for Edward
About Me
Gender
Female
Orientation
Straight
Height
5'08"
Hobbies & Interests
working out, video games, swimming, reading, music, movies, manga, larp, killing zombies, internet, computers
Body Type
a few extra pounds
Movies
action, sci-fi, romantic comedy, comedy, drama, horror
Orientation
straight
Eye Color
green
Hair Color
dark brown
Ethnicity
Caucasian
Relationship
divorced
Have Kids
yes - single parent home
Education Level
some college
Profession
Education / Academic Research
Do you smoke?
no - open to dating smokers though
Do you drink?
socially
I currently live
with kids, with parents, with pets
Socially, I am
shy at first, but warm up quickly, flirt, better in small groups
Political Views
independent
Food Related
BRAINS!!!, Carnivore, Chinese, Chocoholic, Comfort, Eat Out Frequently, Fast Food, Fine Dining, Italian, Japanese, Omnivore, Sushi
Personality
geek, fun loving, flirt, extrovert, introvert, lover, pirate, romantic
Individuality
tattoos
Religious Views
Not Religious, but Spiritual, Pagan
I'm looking for
penpal, friends only, conversation
My Sign
i was born in january, capricorn : dec. 22-jan. 19
Pets
Cats, Targ, Tribbles, Turtle
Gender
Female
Music
Industrial, Alternative Rock, Classical, Jazz, Pop, Rock
Hair Style
french braid, long hair, ponytail, curly
Fitness & Sports
swimming, working out
Looking for
Hobbies & Interests
cooking & recipes, swimming, reading, photography, music, movies, manga, larp, killing zombies, internet, computers, comic books, target practice, television, video games, working out, writing
Orientation
straight
Relationship
single - never married, divorced, single
Have Kids
yes - single parent home, no - maybe with the right person, no - definitely want them though
Their Education Level
some college, post-Graduate, high school grad, currently in college, college grad
Do they smoke?
no - will not date a smoker, daily, no - open to dating smokers though, only when I drink, socially
Do they drink?
no, socially, only blood
They currently live
with roommate(s), with pets, alone, family and friends visit often, on a pirate ship, with an insignificant other, with kids, with parents
Socially, they are
shy at first, but warm up quickly, side kick, flirt, comic relief, better in small groups, the life of the party
Individuality
vampire, tattoos, psychic, pirate at heart, piercings, goatee, beard
They are looking for
romance, the yin to my yang, soulmate, something REALLY hot, relationship, penpal, miss right, dating, conversation, friends only
Pets
Tribbles, Targ, Cat, Cats, Fish, Guinea Pig, Guinea Pigs, Horse, Horses, Snake, Small Furry Creature, Rabbits, Turtle, Rabbit
Gender
Male
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